Medication IS NOT A CURE My personal story

This post is going to be personal as I am ADHD and dyslexic, and so are my husband and my children.

I could not take more pride in my "condition" as I know it is the driving force and ability behind everything I accomplish.

I will say I could not read a full book till sixth grade, barely graduated high school, and was convinced the only job I could get was as a hairdresser and makeup artist.

It was my father, a"h, who basically said, "You're going to college," and so I did.

I graduated with a 4.0 average with three kids, went through my master's program, got certified in CBT, became a licensed addiction counselor, work for my mentor Rav Fanger, and have a successful Life Strategy Project Manager business. I also reach hundreds of followers, clients, and listeners a day.

No, I was never medicated, and I have A LOT to say about it.

There is no right answer for every person.

Many of my clients are ADD/ADHD, and yes, B"H, we see a lot of success.

Medication IS NOT A CURE.

I have so many clients who were "encouraged" to give their children—or give themselves—medication for depression, anxiety, ADD... and they feel like they can't manage.

Whether you are for medication or not, please get educated.

You are required to know how your mind, your spouse's, and your children's work, as well as their personalities, and you have to do the best you can to build them up to believe in themselves so they can complete the tafkid H'shem put them on this world for.

There is no right answer for everyone, but YES, everyone can excel, because whatever brain ability, talents, or struggles you have, THOSE are the exact ones H'shem needs you to serve Him with.

Feel free to reach out with private questions.

Don't be ashamed to ask for help.

You are not alone. H'shem believes in you, and so do I.

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