The 13 Middot Harachamim 4 The Enduring Value of Good Deeds

 

The Enduring Value of Good Deeds

There is a saying in English, "No good deed ever goes unpunished." While our faith teaches us this statement is untrue, many have felt its sting. We've all experienced times when our attempts to do good were met with some form of retribution. Perhaps this has made you hesitate before extending yourself again.

In today's two attributes of mercy, H’shem reminds us that while humans are flawed, He is not. Therefore, the quote should be reframed: "There is never a good deed that goes unnoticed (by GD), its merits kept for when one needs them most."

The Eighth and Ninth Attributes

Emet (Truth)
Rashi explains this attribute as Hashem rewarding those who serve Him faithfully.

Notzer Chesed L'Alafim (Preserving Kindness for Thousands)
According to Sforno, Hashem preserves the merit of one generation to benefit future generations (Zechut Avot).

Practical Applications

In Our Relationships
We have all falsely accused others and been wrongly accused ourselves. Let us commit to approaching every situation with calm and control, so we don't become the reason someone decides to stop performing good deeds.

For Personal Growth
The feeling that no one notices our efforts and "who remembers anyway" is entirely contrary to how H’shem governs the world. Rav Yigal Cohen quotes Rebbe Nachman, who teaches: How we treat someone in a given situation is how H’shem will respond to us in similar circumstances. When performing a good deed, only He needs to witness and acknowledge it. He oversees our happiness and reward. If we feel unappreciated, we needn't worry; H’shem never allows any reward to go uncompensated.

Strengthening Faith and Prayer
Living with Emunah (faith) and Bitachon (trust) means understanding the world's true workings. In challenging moments—when I desire something specific, feel anxious, or believe a situation must unfold in a certain way—I raise my hands and say, "H’shem, I want what You want." While the revelation may not be immediate, there has NEVER been a situation where this practice hasn't eventually shown me the perfection of His wisdom, even in the most heart-stopping moments. Try it; you won't be disappointed.

Incorporate this request in your prayers: "H’shem, I feel X is good for me and what I want. However, I really want what you want. I trust You! Please let me see the salvation quickly."

By doing so, you've affirmed that H’shem governs the world. As Rav Fanger teaches, a prayer for spiritual growth will never be rejected.

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