When we began the Count 40 Elul workshop, we all dreamed of reaching our goals by the end of the 40 days. For most, momentum has been building, propelled by the desire to succeed. Unfortunately, life "got in the way" for others, while some are treading along, trying to keep up.
We must embrace one vital mantra as our mission statement: "Failure" is not a Jewish concept. We fall, make mistakes, and mess up, but we never fail. "שבע יפול צדיק וקם." (A righteous person falls seven times and rises again.) This isn't just wordplay or motivation: failure does not exist. Slip-ups may look like failures, but they're opportunities to learn and grow stronger. Greatness lies in dusting oneself off and trying again.
Consider Albert Einstein, who was once deemed "slow and lazy" by his teachers. He made numerous attempts before achieving success. His perseverance produced more than just accomplishments; it sculpted one of history's greatest minds. Greatness is not born; it's molded through a series of setbacks and triumphs.
Communication: We can easily tell ourselves we're failures, worthless, or hopeless. These thoughts come from surrendering to the Yetzer Hara, who wants you to give up. When you sin, you can do teshuva; when you give up, you're incapable of trying or helping others. Recognize who's talking to you and question if it's advice you should heed.
Self-Improvement: Determination to pursue your goals will benefit all areas of your life. You'll not only secure success but also strengthen your resolve that whatever you set your mind to, you'll find a way to accomplish.
Emuna, Bitachon, and Tefilah: A fundamental Jewish concept is that we have free will, but G-d decides the outcome. This perspective reassures us that if success was meant for us and beneficial, we would have achieved our goal. Hishtadlut (effort) is about the right amount of effort; too much suggests we believe we're in control. Trust isn't about getting what you want, but recognizing H’shem determines what's best for you. Tefilah is one of the most potent tools for achieving your aspirations and should be your primary focus.
Conclusion: As we continue our Elul journey, remember that each setback is merely a setup for growth. Every challenge overcome strengthens our character and deepens our relationship with the Divine. Rather than viewing obstacles as reasons to quit, see them as divinely orchestrated opportunities to develop persistence—one of life's most valuable traits. Keep moving forward, one step at a time, knowing that the journey itself is as meaningful as reaching your destination.
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